So...I hate that every time I think I figure this out it changes. Lately, and lately being since March when I posted a thread about not having an orientation, my feelings for men have diminished and my feelings for women have increased. I still find myself attracted to men, but I no longer really find myself wanting to sleep with men. I've always seen myself with a woman in the long term, but those feelings have increased and now where I used to have fantasies with men in them, those are being replaced with women. I'm dreaming about women. I notice women more when I go out. What is going on?
this might sounds like a dumb idea, but maybe write somewhere pros and cons or pluses and minuses of what you like for men and women?
Men = sexy, fun, attractive Women = sexy, fun, attractive, and I can have biological children which is something I've always wanted, plus I've always imagined myself ending up with a woman. ---------- Post added 19th Jul 2013 at 09:36 PM ---------- but honestly, that's not why I want to be with a woman is just to have kids, it just feels more attractive to me than being with a man.
