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Just the regular? I dont know what to do

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by XenonFlash, Jul 21, 2013.

  1. XenonFlash

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    So my 1st post here
    This is the situation:
    Im on holiday in crete 1 week left and i notice that i look at alot of girls but dont think anything and when i masturbate i often fantasize about a transsexual (girl with a penis)
    but recently i've been thinking that the reason why is because i dont want to aknowladge that i might be gay?

    Sorry for the mistakes i may have made and maybe my vague info english is not my native language

    Xenon
     
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    I'm I'm a similiar boat. I'm just trying to accept my fantasies. If that's how you feel, like your hiding something then that's how you feel.

    Personally, a beautiful girl with a Dick sounds awesome to me.

    If you like girl faces, have some sort of attraction to female.bodies and have attraction to Dick then your good.

    Its all down to what helps you sleep at night, literally
     
  3. XenonFlash

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    I dont really understand what you're trying to say? If thats how i feel thats how i feel? I shouldnt do anything just let it be? Sorry if i'm mistaken
     
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    Yes, if that's how you feel, and if that's what turns you on. That's what your attracted to.

    So it sounds to me like your bisexual possibly, you like a little bit of both male and female. Whichever is dominant is for you to decide. Its most likely hard to find a girl with a penis, so I would head over to a porn website and watch some gay porn, see if you get really excited. Or if the option is there to experiment and yours completely.comfortable with that right now then do that. Just don't stress over the idea of the outcome, cause thats a mental block for people in denial
     
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    Ah ok thats something i can work with :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    I'll see what i can/will do once i get back from this holiday
    Thanx for your help lowkey

    If something happens i will reply it here i guess
     
  6. Tetraquark

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    It's not uncommon for straight men to be attracted to women with penises because of their genitals. Since these women are women, it doesn't make these men any less straight, and it doesn't mean they would feel attracted to the person if the penis were attached to a guy. So while only you can ultimately say what your sexuality, none of the information you provided suggests that you are gay.
     
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    That actually doesnt sound weird?
    I thought that maybe i was thinking of women with penises so that it wouldnt be gay like cause its a women i can think what i want to convinse myself that i was not gay or had gay feelings but your explanation aswell as lowkeys are something to ponder about
     
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    Are you just as attracted to a penis if it's on a man? Or do you only find a penis attractive when it's on a woman?

    I saw a video once that explained why straight men are attracted to transwomen. This might not apply to you but it's worth sharing. In the video, they talk about how little boys are only familiar with the genitalia that they have. Little boys often grow up thinking that girls have a penis because that's the only gentialia they are exposed to. This changes when either the parent explains the different parts a girl and a boy has or they figure out somehow that a girl has a vagina. If the little boy goes a long time without figuring out what a girl has, then that can lead to the little boy developing a sexual fetish for girls with a penis. Because that image fits with what they grew up believing. So an adult male that has this image of a female with a penis is almost more normal to them than a female with a vagina. The guy that has this image ans attraction is still straight, but they just have a different image of what a woman has. I hope that makes sense, the video was very long and I tried explaining it without writing a book on here lol!

    Just take away from this that it is normal what you're feeling. I hope this helps!
     
  9. XenonFlash

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    I sorta get it yea thanx :slight_smile:
    But that doesnt apply to me though i knew from a young age that girls are diffirent and dont have penises
    i think this site and the help people gave me helped me clear the fog in my mind and make things clear again
     
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    So it has been a while and as you maybe noticed by my profile update i now know for sure that i am bisexual and last wednesday i told my best friend and he took it really well saying that nothing would change so yay :grin:

    I want to take this oppertunity to thank everyone who has helped me here being honest with myself and understanding me feelings

    So Thank you everyone

    A very happy XenonFlash