Hi, I'm 19 and not sure if I'm a lesbian or not. Whenever I think about being with a girl it feels very up-lifting and I absolutely love getting compliments from this really cute girl! I used to work in a supermarket full of girls and I would always get nervous and subconsciously try to impress them? (By that I mean spend an hour in front of the mirror and try to sound funny when they spoke to me ) There was this girl that worked there too and she's lesbian, I always had a bit of a thing for her. Unfortunately she moved away but whenever she texts me i get really happy because I was pretty sad she moved away. Whenever I go out with men I kind of feel like its " my duty" to do it, and the sex is terrible! With my last boyfriend we actually broke up because I didn't like having sex with him, and I felt bad about that I think I'm a lesbian but I'm not 100% sure... What do you think?