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Can you help explain to me what my sexual orientation is?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Babyspace, Jul 30, 2013.

  1. Babyspace

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    Hey everyone! So im really confused my sexual orientation. Okay so i am really attracted to males, like they are the ones that i like, fangirl about, generally want to be with and picture myself with. But sometimes i catch myself staring at girls butts and boobs and also i really enjoy the thought of having sex with a girl one day, but not really for the emotional part of being with them but just the sexual part. I really like girls with big butts. (sorry just had to add that) I kinda want to have sex with a girl more than have sex with boy but like i said it would only be like a 'friends with benefits thingy', were as with a boy it would be more emotional. Like sometimes these girls i want to be with are girls i know and sometimes they are celebs, like Rihanna and Beyonce. Alot of people say the boys i am attracted to are feminine and 'pretty boyish', and that i am a lesbian, which at first i was like 'no im not' but now im not sure at all, so i was wondering what you guys think. Thanks! :icon_bigg
     
  2. Starry Eyes

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    I have the same feelings but I am a guy so mine are reversed. I like women, but I can't deny I like having sex with men. Honestly, you are probably bi-sexual.
     
  3. Nick07

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    Maybe it's curiosity? Even straight people have sex with the same gender, not everytime of course and usually in their teenage years or in their twenties. To find out how it would feel.

    :slight_smile: explore all the posibilities.
     
  4. SaleGayGuy

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    Hi Folks

    Before I came out to my wife a few months ago as 100% gay I used only to think about sex with guys and not really about guys as a whole person. Since coming out and feeling more at ease with my sexuality when I look at porn now I am first drawn to the guys face before looking at what he is doing. I feel much more at ease in imagining being snuggled up to and cuddling a guy and forming an emotional attachment than I did before I came out.

    Don’t know if that helps.

    SaleGayGuy
     
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