hello all you people. well where to begin. hmmmm. i am 17 a dude. and i have had 4 crushes on girls over my life including one that lasted 4 years on this girl. although she was a complete bitch and broke my heart for a while. i sometimes check out girls around town. but always stare at the ass, never the boobs. sometimes the face. dunno why, just like ass XD. well my problem is. when i was like 6-7 i had sexual stuff happen with another boy kid. that may have effected me in the long run because. when i masturbate i can jerk off to lesbian stuff in my head. but i seem to find 'release' faster from imagining gay oral sex. it also comes easier as well. i find it easier to imagine it as well!!!!! i watch a lot of lesbian porn, since i was 14 and my fetishes have changed constantly over time with lesbian. it really turns me on and i find it easier to watch it rather than try to imagine (because my imagination with this is quite poor) i have watched gay oral porn. but only very recently and its pretty much the same level of arousal as lesbian porn (and various lesbian fetishes) thing is.... i cant see myself loving a man. or getting intimate with him, well maybe i guess. but not romantically. i dont like seeing the ejaculating mans face during gay porn either. just penis. i dont like straight porn. it does nothing for me. i dont check out dudes and just see every guy as a plain 'guy'. maybe its just a penis with men thing? is it just a new fetish that will go away or does it mean that im bisexual with a preference or gay. or just straight? :bang:
I believe that pornography is pornography and nothing more. I think anyone can be pleasured by certain things, but if you can't imagine yourself in a sexual position with another man, you're probably still straight. Just because you watch gay porn doesn't mean you are gay. It just means you have good taste. XD Just kidding. But in all realness, if you cannot imagine YOURSELF in the shoes of a man in a gay relationship, odds are you aren't gay.
what about how all the gay thoughts make me cum faster and how its easier to think of? thats kind of weird. or maybe its because i dont know the female body very well
I would say there is certainly some same-sex attraction there. You might be bi, you might well be gay in the long run.
you seem to be excluding the female areas. i think i might let up on the gay porn then. even if iit is less frequent than lesbian. so what do u guys think? what am i judging by everything said?
You could possibly be bi curious at the moment. Once I went through that period but it went away and then it came back last year and it has lasted because I have had a major attraction to guys as well even though I still get attracted to girls as well
interesting. but i just like penis in my porn occasionally. which is weird because i am not attracted to men any other way. and dont picturre myself 'doing them' any'favours' either! just myself. kind of weird how i react better to gay imagination. and i can picture it better thn lesbian (this is without porn) but i can still fap to lesbian it just takes a little longer. my friend sayss if u have sex with a woman it becomes easier to imagine. i guess im gonna be virgin for life because i have no qualities women want XD
but i get turned on equal amounts by lesbian and gay porn. anyway i think i will stop the gay shit. i dont feel like im gay. but maybe im bisexual with a preference? because i like the porn. but i dont see guys that way! im so fucking confused as to whether im still straight. my best guess is that im bisexual with preference in 'crushes' to women????? because i have only ever had crushes on girls since i was young. to now!. and they dont come often. a girl has to be real special in order for me to start to really like her. but the young (5-6) gay experiences may have affected me..... CONFUSED !!!!!!!!!
Do NOT use porn to determine your sexual orientation. use your every day life attractions and who you're romantically interested in
If you're going to be using any kind of alternative means to determine your sexual orientation, do NOT use pornography what so ever. If anything use art, like statues, or paintings or nude photography of people (be sure they are not pleasing themselves though), and see what you like.
....and ignore those here saying that one should not use porn to determine one's sexuality.......this makes no sense. Ask yourself this question: A guy gets married and keeps getting busted by his wife watching gay porn.....over and over again......do you think the wife should believe the guy is 100% hetero?????
