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Well..'I'm confused'

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Smartie, Aug 5, 2013.

  1. Smartie

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    I was just hoping for some real advice...when I stumbled upon this website.

    I'm nineteen, female and I've had various boyfriends that haven't worked out. I've slept with one guy (but only a few times) but to be honest, for a long time like atleast a year I've been lying to myself about how I feel about girls...!

    Last summer, I started having feelings for a friend, I ignored them as we're very close and I figured it was nothing but 'best friend' stuff, how I then moved away from home for work and basically fell for this girl- thing is she already had a GF and I couldn't tell her how I felt. Most of the fems I work with reckon I'm gay when they first meet me, but i know I, attracted to men- atleast to look at.

    I then met another girl, who openly admitted to being bisexual and I opened up and told her I was pretty confused. Something almost happened between us..but then it didn't and I really regret this because I havent kissed a girl yet! Then recently I liked another girl but she was also taken! Why do I always seem to like girls that are taken?!

    I know Im attracted to girls, I catch myself looking all the time. I just don't know what to do? I 've got no experience, no idea how to get a girl interested in me, or make in subtly obvious Im interested and that way inclined.

    Just would love advice...
    Cheers xx
     
  2. unknown17050

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    1st, welcome to my world; I seem to like girls who happen to be taken alot.

    2nd, You could be Bi from what you stated here; if you want to get a girl for trying, I think you should just keep doing what you have been doing, meaning it is no different then getting a boyfriend, gay/lesbian/bisexual people are all the same when it comes to romantic relationships, so getting one should be no different.
     
  3. Starry Eyes

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    Just keep your chin up and try to find someone you can connect with. That is really all you can do at this point.
     
  4. sigillumdiaboli

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    Do what I do and get onto Lesbian dating sites, and join groups. Meetup.com is great for networking!
     
  5. silverhalo

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    You could try online dating, or see if there is an LGBT group in your area.