1) Is it normal for a gay man to get anxiety over females as a whole? 2) Is it possible for a straight male to go through traumatic experiences with females, mother, ex gf etc, and lose arousal to females? 3)Could heavy porn use be covering up what your really into? 4) is desensitization possible, causing a need for hardcore and/or gay porn 5)If your around more guys and never really any girls could your body possibly self adapt to its environment on a sexual level
1. Yes, based on experiences. 2. It depends how you feel about men. Just because you don't want to be with a woman doesn't mean you want to be with men. 3. Porn is a dangerous thing and is by no means an indicator of your true sexuality, your feelings are when you're outside of this sexual fantasy world. 4. Potentially. Think of it as smoking marijuana. At first it's great. Then it gets boring so you need a bigger hit (turn-on) and then a bigger hit! Boom, you're now smoking crack (if you'll excuse the pun). 5. No, I believe that'd make you more desperate. If you aren't in prison, then there's always females to look at. Just because you can't talk to them doesn't mean you don't have any feeling whatsoever towards them, sexual or emotional. What I'd say is, you need to overcome your issues with women and see how that makes you feel. I have a friend who's like that with women, he doesn't think he's gay (after our little escapade) but I think his relationship with his mother, similar to yours, has affected how he is with women. Try and get over your hang-ups with your mother. Whether you do this by yourself or with your mother doesn't matter. It's all inside your head!!! Good Luck!
Well I plan on seeing a therapist... I feel like Im the guy that's goingto be single his whole life... Its not that Im not goodlooking, its just damn its not a good feeling being unsure. It has caused a serious downfall in my personality and goodcharm around anyone, especiallly new people, its almost like I literally don't know how to approach people anymore, its like asking myself over n over do I approach being straight or gay, am I too feminine or masculine, its on an OCD level. I do not think I have what is called hocd.. I probably have ocd tendencies but I just think I have real problems effecting my outlook on things on a sexual level Anyone else?
Porn CAN help give you an IDEA of what it is you are into, and for me, it helped discover some things about my sexuality. But if you happen to like GAY PORN and STRAIGHT PORN as well, that can cloud a few things. Of course, use your everyday attractions as an indicator.
