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Wait a second what have just happened?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by dudette, Aug 8, 2013.

  1. dudette

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    Ok so within 150 days I went through some life experience.
    So since I watch this gay porn video, I started questioning myself what is my sexual orientation, I started having crashes on guys, I started getting sexual aroused by guys, homosexual fantasies, it was all about guys, and a little bit about girls.
    It was like this for 60 days. then for around 40 days I was shifting between girls and guys and I was still questioning my sexual orientation. And on the 101st day I felt just brainwashed from this non-stop questioning and this non-stop shifting, so I told myself "thats it, I am bicurious because I like girls and guys, but I am still discovering my sexuality". And since this day I stop questioning my sexual orientation, and everything shifted toward girls (sometimes its about guys, but for a short time).

    And I want to know if this has ever happened to you.
     
  2. unknown17050

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    You do sound Bisexual to me, you will find that many who identify as such have felt the way you did.
     
  3. lukeluvznicki13

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    You probably are bi sexual :slight_smile:
    Since you have had sexual attractions from both genders like myself, you most probably sound bi sexual. Unless you are having a long bi curious stage :slight_smile:
     
  4. dudette

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    I thought that bicurious means a person who is still discovering his bisexuality
    or does it mean a person who is heterosexual who is a little bit interested in homosexual relationship?
     
  5. LinkLarkin

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    Bicurious is usually a separate concept to bisexuality :slight_smile: I'm sure others use it in subtly different ways, but the most common interpretation is that it's somebody with a strong preference for one sex over the other but who doesn't want to rule the other sex out until they've had the chance to experiment a bit. That sounds like it could apply to you! :slight_smile:
     
  6. Wells

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    I reckon you're bisexual, even if theres a small attraction to other guys. But lol you counted every day :grin:
     
  7. dudette

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    I know that I am bisexual, but then I have these doubts when I have these shifts towards girls (even for one day) because I start thinking maybe just maybe it was just an overreaction or it was actually just a phase, I know its impossible, but i have these doubts.
    and I wanted to know if you had it too