I do know that I am either Gay or Bisexual. But for a week of thinking, I still can't find the answer. I do have dreams where I am with another Guy. But I do like some Girls. However, I do prefer Guys over Girls. Any help will be greatly appreciated.
Bi-leaning towards gay, but that is only going by what you have typed here; it may help if you bring more information into your life story.
I get along better with Girls. I never liked sports, getting dirty, getting hurt, you get it. I am very Feminine. I have had the dreams for about 3-4 Weeks, almost every night. In the past, I have had some crushes on Girls, but now they are almost all gone. Now it's crushes on Boys, but still (though very few) Girl crushes.
First we need to define a crush, do you; A. Value their friendship and fantasize hanging out or spending a day together? or B. Do you want to get close to them and having a kissing/make out session with them and take them on a romantic night out in a dim lit room and walking them home?
It's not weird, in fact it brings you one step closer; You obviously have romantic feelings for men so that is a step in one direction. Now tell me, have you ever had sexual fantasies? If you do, which turn you on? Get you aroused so to speak.
Then you have your answer right there man. But don't feel bad, it's okay to be gay (good god, I can see someone posting that song sometime after I post this). Remember; it's not the fact that you're effeminate that makes you gay, it's the fact you like members of your same gender that do. You are always welcome here to have this as your outlet if this your only choice (which makes me think that, as that is the typical case with most of the users here).
Also, you don't necessarily HAVE to feel obligated to label yourself as well, some prefer not to. I'm not telling you how you should feel and who or what you are, but I am trying to help you, basically, do not feel obligated to do anything. Just do what makes you happy in the end.
Questioning may take long, mine took almost four years Just be patient and you'll find the answer eventually!
