I'm a 32yr old man I have dated men in the past. But then I got married an now I am single again a when I look at some men I think there are hot when I am near a hot man I feel funny on the in side not bad that is but when I look at a man nude I just don't like it wants wrong with me I like lady's but I like men to but I do not know about sex wise with a man. Can you help me know what I need to do?
When in doubt, do nothing - Which is actually doing something... but you know what I mean. Dated men as in dinner, movie dated or are you using this as a euphemism for sex? If the later - then its just sex - no big deal. I can't tell you what to do. Well I can - but it wouldn't be best for you. Do nothing until you decide which is more attractive to you in this situation. Eventually you will make a 'choice' on how to settle this debate inside of you. I unfortunately cannot tell you your sexual orientation - you already know, its now up to you to choose when you want to admit it to yourself and then act on it, or not.