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Would I be a sucky partner?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by suppa groovy, Aug 22, 2013.

  1. suppa groovy

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    Okay, so I'm 99% gay, and right now I'd really like to end up with a woman some day. But, I really don't find genitals attractive. Whenever I see vaginas in porn or in photographs, they don't look like something I'd want to eat out. But I also know I would love to be eaten out, and I feel like a jerkface because I wouldn't be pleasing my partner at all.

    How can I get over this genital thing? Would I be a bad person to not want to service my partner? Does this mean I'm not actually gay, since I don't like vaginas?
     
  2. RoguesWolfe

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    Dude I know how that goes, it's weird isn't it? I mean I like girls a lot...but just the thought of em...anyways I always felt weird....and thought I was basically the only one XD. Though I have found out from experience there are some people out there who wouldn't mind if you didn't want to. If you just explain it to them and they understand it's not so bad. There's always other ways so yeah. -_- I'm probably not much help.
     
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    Some people only like to give, and some only to receive. You are one of those who likes to receive. Find someone who likes to give.