Hi there, I really need some advice. So, I always thought I was straight but last year, things got a little crazy; I had sex with a gay friend who studied on my university course. Before this happened, we had already kissed once before, but it never got any further than that. at the time, I remember feeling more emotionally attracted to the guy as opposed to physically. Before then, I was always sure that I liked girls. I shrugged off my encounter with my friend as a mere experiment, and something not to be considered serious in any way. He kept the secret, too. But recently, I drunkenly told my group of friends about the experience as many of my friends did suspect that I was gay given the way that I act around people. Now, everyone thinks I am gay; as for me, I don't quite know what to think. It has made me think about dating a man to maybe experiment again and see what is going on with me. I had sex with a girl some months back, but I failed to get an erection, which leads me to wonder if I was really attracted to her. What's weird is that recently, I haven't really given much thought to sex in a while. I am more interested in the comfort and security a relationship could bring me as opposed to the possible sexual benefits. Physically, I find women to be beautiful and I find very certain types of men to be somewhat attractive, too. i think it probably lies more in their personality that attracts me. I know this must all sound quite strange, but it would be great if someone could help me out. Cheers, Nathan
If your friends think you're gay and its not bothering you then I wouldn't worry about it too much. If you're thinking about dating a man and the idea is something you like then go for it, experiment away, just don't force yourself to do it if it doesn't feel right. "Physically, I find women to be beautiful and I find very certain types of men to be somewhat attractive, too. i think it probably lies more in their personality that attracts me." This as far as I know is fairly common, however what it actually says about orientation I'm afraid I don't know.
i had a gay dream one night and after that all was going down,i was depresed for like 12 months i losed 30pounds...i was never atrracted to men in my life,yet i had a same sex experiance when i vas 8yrs old....when i was with my ex gf and all gf i was alweis aroused and i mean all the time....never doubted my sexuality i sleept with my friend in the same bead never fealt aroused...i saw duds naked never was aroused i was with dudes in a sauna and never was aroused.....now every time i see a man and i mean any man i get an axaity attack alwais thinking about my penis....and alwais feeling something in my penis is not arousal its something difrent like when u have an panick atack but in ur penis....i waced gay porn my penis was flacit all the time i mastrubate to the porn with a flacid penis and after 10 minutes i ejaculate....i imagine all the time dudes in my head but i cant get hard i lost my sex drive.....and when i whaced the mowie the Sitter a kid was gay in the end and i didn know how....some of my friends caled me gay and after that evry time i saw them i panick....when i skype with girls some that i like older girls im alwais aroused.....once i was so aroused my testicals hurt so fricking bad.....am i gay in deniel?? srt for the bad english ---------- Post added 29th Aug 2013 at 01:31 PM ---------- im not homofobic but now im starting to get scared of duds and gay ppl..no ofence ---------- Post added 29th Aug 2013 at 01:36 PM ---------- if ur there so we can talk
