Ok, so here is my story. I've been having sexual fantasies about other guys since I was about 13. At that time though, I mostly thought about girls. As i got older, my fantasies were more and more about men, but I flirted with and dated women exlusively. In college, my first roommate was gay, and one night I got real drunk and we fooled around. I regretted it and avoided him from then on, but to this day I find myself dreaming about it. I've had a few other encounters, and it was pretty much the same story. Anyway, now I'm in my mid 20's (so probably a little too old for this) and I am completely confused. I've only had sex with/dated women, but I cannot get turned on by straight porn or straight fantasies at all. At. All. Do you think I might actually be gay? I cant see myself datig a man, but when I picture sex, all i see are men. I guess I am just a little lost. I thought I'd grow out of it.
Do you enjoy having sex with women? Have you ever considered that you might be bi (gay and straight aren't the only possibilities, you know)? Your problem is that you're letting prejudices get in the way of honestly exploring your sexuality. No one can answer the question of what your sexuality is but yourself, and you won't be able to do that if you keep repressing yourself.
