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I can finally say it

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Tokumei, Sep 3, 2013.

  1. Tokumei

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    Hi everyone !

    It has been a month since my last post here. I first came here because I was really confuse about my orientation and didn't know what to do or how to find an answer. Today I come to tell you this :
    I'm not confuse anymore. Today, for the first time, I can really say it : I'm a lesbian. I don't know if in the future I will find out that I was wrong and fall for a guy. And it doesn't matter. For now, I can say that I'm much more interested in girls than guys. In fact, in the moment, I'm really not interested in guys, I just can't imagine myself with a guy. So, for now, lesbian seems more "natural" to me.
    I'm happy I can finally say it :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations for finding yourself!
     
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    Congratz!! That's a huge accomplishment, and you should be proud of yourself for taking such a big step forward. I think this occasion calls for hugs and bananas all around!(&&&)(*hug*)(&&&)(*hug*)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)
     
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    Congratulations! That's fantastic, well done! :grin:
     
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    Well done! Xxx
     
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    Congratulations! That's a massive step and I can remember that feeling when I reached that point.

    Well done! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    Hoooray!!

    It feels great to say doesn't it, no more questions!

    I'm gay by the way! Nice to meet you you big flaming lesbian! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Congratulations on your confidence and courage to face it :slight_smile:
     
  9. Tokumei

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    Thanks to all of you ! I'm feeling really more happy since I said it. I just feel so relieved right now (!)

    Now, I will need courage to tell my friends. I'm sure it will goes well. I already came out as bi to some of my friends, and my bestfriends know I'm gay. I will just have to tell my other friends ^^ Even if I don't like hiding it, I don't think I will talk to my parents for now...
     
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    Congrats!! Xxx
     
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    Congrats! =) When you come out to your friends who you already told you were bi, make sure to explain to them that you were still questioning and hesitant to accept it, so they don't think you're just confused.
    This is a big step! I bet you're relieved!
     
  12. Tokumei

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    Thanks for the advice, I will make sure to tell them that. I'm sure they will understand. I'm still a little nervous about telling some of my friends, because I knew them for so long and I'm sure they don't expect that from me. They will be shocked, but I'm sure they will accept it ^^
     
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    Congratulations! i know how good it feels to finally be able to just say it, even if only to yourself. And just know who you are; it feels great. :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations now you can live your life out if that buggy shell