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still confused

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by paracosm, Sep 10, 2013.

  1. paracosm

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    Location:
    California
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Questioning
    Out Status:
    A few people
    in case you did not read my last post, I basically hooked up with a new friend who is gay, while I am still questioning. So i was texting him today, and i sent him a text to hang out. but he seemed to avoid that question. i want to be friends and that is it. but i do not know if he just sees me as a hook up when we were good friends before that night. i am just really worry about losing a friend.
     
  2. confused1234

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    You guys need to talk about what happened. Ask him how he felt about it. If you just want to be friends, make that clear. But to me, it sounds like you might have feelings for him.
     
  3. lostman

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    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    A few people
    I would suggest meeting face to face ... some text messages can be misunderstood. Good to talk things out face to face. Instead of you trying to guess what is on his mind.

    All the best.