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Am I more straight than bi?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Musician, Sep 13, 2013.

  1. Musician

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    Or a disjunctive bisexual?

    I have always been into chicks, and not dudes. I got heavily involved in porn, and since kicking it about a month ago, I feel better in many ways. More clear-headed.

    I was questioning my sexuality for a while when using the porn, but now, when fantasizing, I find myself getting hard thinking to guys - sometimes even harder than to girls - but I can never climax to a guy. I must always climax to a girl. I've tried climaxing to guys, but it never feels right. Romantically, meaning kissing a guy vs. a girl, it's always a girl. I imagine myself doing all romantic things with a girl. Which is great, because I already have a wonderful girlfriend! But it's just that one thing, where I get somewhat aroused to guys.

    If I get harder to guys, but have romantic feelings to girls, and also always climaxing to girls, because they just always get me off like that, do I consider myself leaning to straight? With girls, it just takes slightly longer to get aroused, and it's not as instantaneous, but it always feels perfect. I'm just wondering what's up with that extra arousal, though I can't really comfortably get myself to climax to a guy. I don't really like it that much.

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    Not going to lie, I have no clue. LOL. I think you're probably straight. haha
     
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    Only you're the judge of that. But in my opinion you're 90% straight, and 10% gay.
     
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    Mhhh. Im far from sure, but I think you might be straight but have really open mind. Have you ever considered doing a three way between a girl and a guy?
     
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    Good question, PinkLover. I think I have. Could be fun.
     
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    You could be bisexual. A lot of bisexual people (such as myself) prefers one gender over another. Like for me it is 70 (guys): 30 (girls)
     
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    I think you are mostly straight, but as you said you wouldn't mind a "guy being there" if girl was present. Maybe 2 on the scale?
     
  8. lovely lesbian

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    Mmmm not sure:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride: