Okay, here goes: So, I am a girl, and I am sexually attracted to all women. I'm pretty sure that sometimes I am attracted to men, but it might just be in my head, as I'm still in a little bit of denial... (I'm new to all this!) Like (THIS IS ABOUT TO GET KIND OF EXPLICIT JUST WARNING YOU) I am turned on by that triangly-thing in the bone structure of a guy's abdomen that point towards their *private area*. I also get an urge to kiss guys sometimes, like my lips actually ACHE wanting to kiss them.. but i don't feel aroused *down there* when I'm feeling it. (I'm sorry im being so explicit im normally alot more innocent!) But then again, I have never kissed anyone before, so I don't know what it would feel like in the actual kiss... but I have seen pictures/videos of pensises before and they don't turn me on. But here's where it gets REALLY confusing: I am pretty sure that I get really emotionally attracted to men. Not just like "I really like their personality". If I have an emotional connection with a guy (even a tv character) when they smile my stomach swoops, and I shiver a little. I haven't really had that with a girl, maybe once or twice. So, please please PLEASE help me figure this out! You will have my eternal gratitude!
your probably bi, but think about I like this, being sexually attracted to someone; you want to have sex with them, being physically attacked to someone; you like how they look, what they have. [ B===D or ({}) & ( . ) ( . ) ] then emotionally attracted; liking them for their personality sorry for the symbols...
Hey! I'm feeling the exact same thing and it is seriously confusing. However, I just label myself as bisexual and try not to think about it too much. Although I do feel more attracted to girls, I also get emotionally and physically drawn to guys. My theory is to just take life as it comes, and if that means that I end up with a guy - then fine! Alternatively, if I were to end up dating a girl - that would be cool too! Just try to look past the gender and consider whether you would date/kiss/go out with the person, regardless of their junk
