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the years leading up to being out of the closet

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by seeking, Sep 24, 2013.

  1. seeking

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    i am soon to be 20 years of age and i am at a point where i am discovering myself which includes my sexual orientation.

    I believe i may be a lesbian because:
    1)i think all girls are attractive. I love the female body.
    2)i never get sexual satisfaction from a man
    3)i hardly think a man is attractive.
    4)i just never see them more than just a dude with a live dildo.
    5)i feel more comfortable with a girl.. my heart opens up more.. i gain a heart felt attraction to them which i never do with me.

    So i was just wondering... how was your experience leading up to you finally coming to a realization that your a lesbian (even bisexual). Your feelings towards the opposite sex.

    I hope i didn't offend anyone and hope to hear about your self-discovery.

    *i have dated a girl before but it didn't work out...and i never had a sexual experience with a woman. So i can't say for sure if my sexual self will be more satisfied*
     
  2. SwiftKnight

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    Hi I'm actually still not sure ehhh..
    but I just like, really fall in love with the strong characters women actually are. Like, leadership, motherhood, the fact that they can be gentle yet fierce... I dunno haha erm men are only attractive to me in terms of looks? Like i would find a guy cute or hot, maybe funny but that's it. A woman however... could take up my whole world :slight_smile:
     
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    I agree they are cute and can make me laugh, but anything else they can't give me. i think i still have some more time on this path to be for sure what i think i am is true (lesbian.)
    I can be friends with a guy but anything else with them doesn't attract me. this big "do not enter" sign shows up in my heart with a dude.

    well if u ever want to talk, i'll be totally open to it. Nice to have someone to talk to and share their journey with even if it is just with a penpal.

    (&&&)
     
  4. Ameya

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    How would you feel about a MTF female? Just wondering I am new and just came out.
    Ameya
     
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    I wouldn't mind.. i have had intense fantasies about a hot femme with nice firm boobs with a dick...better than a strap on lol. But, if it was a guy that change his wee wee to V then i have no clue how i would feel about it. I wouldn't have anything against the MTF, but from my experience i personally never had an attraction to many MTF.

    but if for long term relationship i would have to see if our personality mesh and if the bed room activities fulfill me.

    if there was alot of masculine features still present....i don't think i would be attracted to the MTF. I'm very much attracted to feminine features.

    (idk if you are MTF) But if i was you i wouldn't worry there is always someone for someone. We are never alone in our sexuality/sensuality.

    I hope this made sense and hope I helped
    (&&&)
     
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