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Girls seem like nothing more than just a pretty face.

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by BearLover, Oct 4, 2013.

  1. BearLover

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    I don't know what it is with me and girls, I think I'm bisexual as I find some women attractive in porn videos but I've been way more interested in men now, ever since this man started flirting with me.

    At school I just thought of girls as just pretty faces and I wasn't put of by the thought of having sex with them but being in a relationship with a girl didn't really interest me. I found it hard to get to know girls as I'm quite reserved and I don't really care about most things they say. I knew this one girl that was alright as she didn't seem like she was full of shit but the rest of them are really fake. The majority of girls know pile on foundation and come across as really stupid, they talk about shopping, facebook, x factor, their phone etc...

    When I look at some of these men I imagine what they look like without their clothes off, they get me excited when looking at them when they are bending over, I also like their facial features, I was constantly looking at most the features of my bosses body. When looking at a girl I'm not put off by the thought of having sex with them but I just don't get excited looking at girls, with men I find my attention drifting off to look at them but with women they seem like they have pretty faces but I don't get turned on by looking at their bums or anything like that. I do like the thought of some middle aged woman especially when they have big boobs but girls my age aren't that much of a big deal and a lot of the time I don't like their personalities.
     
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  2. Starry Eyes

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    So my first question is have you ever done anything sexual with either sex?
     
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    Hey there,
    It seems pretty clear to me, that at least for now, your main interests are with men. In that case, I'd have to advise that it's probably safe for you to pursue men romantically. Things can change in the future or probably not...hey, I haven't looked back once since I came out as lesbian....so keep your eyes peeled.

    Best of luck!
    You have my support
     
  5. Starry Eyes

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    Well, you definitely won't know for sure until you have sex, but it seems like you might be bi with a preference for men.
     
  6. HeyJoe

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    I really feel the same way I can only recognize pretty faces or maybe hot women(especially in porn) but I can't really picture out of having sex with them but sometimes I get curious of how it feels like to have sex with a woman.
     
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    perhaps you are just surronding by the sorts of females that dont interest you...you are obviously interesting in men...but not all girls are like that (promiseee)...i know that should i ever get a girlfriend..she will be hard to find...because im a special soul :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: and i find girls are like that a lot aswell and i dont really get interesting in what most girls are interested in or like talking about what they talk about..but i beleive i can find girls that are different to those i am surronded by..so perhaps you will too!! but it dosent really matter if you want to go for men at this point in tim ego for it!
     
  8. aznboy

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    Also, I'm bi (not much doubts about this) and if I'm particularly fascinated/dead set on a particular guy or girl at any one point, my attraction towards the other sex decreases considerably. (I know everyone is different, so take all of what I'm saying with a grain of salt) You might want to just pursue whoever you're interested right now and just let things fall as they may. Don't stress too much.