I really dunno what to label myself :X My friends label me gay. I label myself bisexual But sometimes I just label myself purely gay. Cause I still get the arousal when I do watch some lesbian porn and a woman giving solo orgasm. It also confuses me that I like guys sexually and having romantic imaginations about them. I didn't even have any sex dreams about any woman. I had lots of sex dreams with guys I had liked. I don't really feel something special with a woman romantically... But, I still know how to determine if a girl is somewhat hot especially in porn but I don't really know how to recognize women around my town if they're hot or not. My friends can easily recognize if the woman looks hot for them while I sit there saying "Uh, yeah! She's really hot." Is this normal for a gay guy to still be sexually aroused with this kind of sexual entertainment? What do you think guys and gals?
It sounds like you might be bi but lean heavily towards men based on your post. Do you not want to be bi?
How you are with girls is exactly how I am with guys and my friends. Even watching something that's supposed to be hot *cough* Magic Mike *cough*, all my friends love it and are like 'he's so hot!' but I get very little, if anything from it or even people around me. :/ Anyway, as to your labeling yourself problem, allow me to quote Laci Green "We define labels, labels don't define us". Remember that whatever you chose to call yourself it is what YOU have chosen to call yourself and what that means to you might be very different to what it means to someone else. Differences in opinion do not make other opinions less valid. In any case, if you're comfortable with the label 'gay' then by all means call yourself gay, if your comfortable with the label 'bisexual' then by all means call yourself bisexual and don't sweat what other people think the label means, apply it to you and go with what is the most comfortable for you in your skin.
