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Im lesbian but have a crush on guy?..

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by MyLittleWorld, Oct 13, 2013.

  1. MyLittleWorld

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    I am sure I like him.. but more in a emotional level than in sexual.. I couldnt sleep with him because Im not that much attracted to him but he is really handsome. Im really confused,. I had a relationship in past I liked a guy but I wasnt attracted to him and it all ended up not very good.. advice?:confused:
     
  2. Priiiide

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    Are you certain it's a crush? Are you sure it isn't just friendship? As for advice, perhaps become friends with him and see what happens, maybe attraction will grow?
     
  3. hitgirl

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    I've had 'crushes' on friends before and realised later we just had a strong, platonic connection and nothing more. Maybe that's what you're experiencing. Not every attraction between people has to be sexual.