Hi all When I was thirteen I first started feeling attracted to men and came out as gay to my best friend. She promptly responded by telling me she was a lesbian and since then many other members of our peer group have come out to massive amounts of support. So based on those reasons alone I am not afraid to come out. It is however for one simple thought I have all the time: what if I'm wrong. What if I'm not gay. I could be bi. So anyways heres my deal I feel hugely attracted to males sexually, emotionally and in watever other way you could think of. Do I see the odd girl and think " hmmm shes cute i could totally have sex with her" absolutly I do. Also I watch and masterbate to a lot of straight porn. However when it comes down to it the thought of my penis near a vagina or really any part of the female anatomy is just disgusting. It's the ultimate turn off. So thats my story I'm now 16 and very comfortable with who I am. I'm just not sure what I am. Any help you can offer would be great.
You said it is disgusting when you thought of your penis to be near a female's body so I guess you wouldn't want to have sex with girls. Would you want to have sex with guys?
Do you find girls attractive in a sexual way? Would you like to touch their bodies, kiss them, etc...?
For what's been said so far it seems like you're definitely leaning more towards gay, even though maybe you still have a slight interest in girls. But if at the end of the day when it comes to sexual attraction you're only into men, I'd say that's your answer.
Why do you need to label yourself so soon! It might be easier to find out over time; don't rush it mate!
