So I always identified as bi and I've been in relationships with guys for the last 4 years but the need to experiment was getting more intense. I've always fantasized about women and I don't think I've EVER fantasized about a man, not since I was maybe 11/12. But at 13 I had my first 'girl crush' and decided to identify as bi. Except it's not something I ever really explored though I wanted to. I've been with my bf on and off for two years. Everytime we break up and get back together, I experience all the awful feelings of 'being in love'. The problem is, I still only fantasize about women and I make jokes that if I wasn't with my bf, I'd be with a women and go on about how I think women are a lot more physically attractive. If I'm out with people at the beach, I look at women not men. And the men I do like always have long hair. But they're still MEN, you know? my bf is 6ft4 & very hairy & cuddly. Definitely not feminine. Except when we broke up this Summer, I decided I needed to be with a woman. All feelings I ever had about men just went away. I didn't want it. I started dating this REALLY stunning girl. I found her far more attractive than any man I knew, and I was excited to see her. We wouldn't have worked out though, even if I didn't get back with my bf. Things were fine until I went to an LGBT night with some friends and ended up kissing this girl. She came back to mine where I said she could stay but that I had a bf and was just v confused. But I thought she was gorgeous. I havn't even stopped thinking about her figure since. And then I feel guilty. I went to my bf's later in hysterics and confessed how confused I'm feeling. He was very good about it and agreed to give me some time. Now, I don't know what to do. I love him very much and I'm v frightened of being gay so it would be easy(/ier) to just stay with him and try to forget about it but at the same time, it's pretty unlikely to go away, right? What do people think? Do I like women? Is it possible it's a phase?