I remember a time when I was literally obsessed with girls. However, in the past few years or so I've noticed guys a lot more and am really attracted to them. I thought I was bi but now I'm not sure... I mean, I like talking to girls and forming friendships with them but I could never see myself in a relationship with one. With guys I feel more attraction towards them, both physical and emotional, and I can really see myself having a boyfriend. I just don't see my friend's obsessions with boobs and whatnot. If I were watching porn there'd have to be a guy In there for me to enjoy. My friend for instance keeps talking to me about it and I just sit there and agree but inside I'm thinking "I'd rather be with you than anyone you're currently talking about." What I'm really trying to ask is am I gay? I suspect I am but I really need someone to clarify it for me.
Well you pretty much stated you don't like girls sexually or emotionally, but you do guys. That's pretty obvious right there. But I just wanted to add that I also think girls can be hot, but it's not because I want to have sex with them or anything. I'm just able to see what a straight guy would think is hot in a woman. And everyone lies on a spectrum. You might be more on the gay side, but still enjoy hooking up with girls or something..