A couple of years ago, I thought that I was completely straight. Then, I began to question my sexuality. I hadn't been attracted to anyone that I knew, but I was attracted to band members and actors. I ended up saying that I was bisexual to myself. Then, I shoved that idea to the side and thought that I was completely straight. Now, I'm questioning myself again. The main reason that I'm questioning myself is that I don't find vaginas "hot" at all but I do with penises. I don't like my own, but feel that I would really like to have sex with someone with one. This leads me to believe that I'm gay, but again, I've never found a guy that I know attractive and have found females attractive. I was very confused earlier today, when I was watching a movie. There was an actress that many men would have found attractive, but I was only turned on by the idea that she had a penis. Help?
Well, I suppose I have to ask, which are you attracted to romantically? Is it just sexually that you're attracted to men, or would you seek a more emotional relationship with one? That's a pretty important part of sexuality, is romantic orientation. Also, if names are what's getting you, who the hell cares? I personally identify as "whatever," because I've long since decided that I fall in love with who I fall in love with. If you're in a bar, and see a hot guy, and want to date him, then great! If the same situation happens with a girl, that's great too! Labels aren't really that necessary--convenient, maybe, but they're certainly not the most important thing. Maybe you're homosexual and heteroromantic? It doesn't matter--what matters is if you're in love and you're happy.
