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confusion again help a guy out please

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by mikey34, Oct 20, 2013.

  1. mikey34

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    Does this make any sense. At first i thought i was 100 percent straight. Then I thought I was 100 percent gay. Now Im thinking im bi. I think 10% into women and 90% into guys. For instance I will notice a hot blonde woman on tv but not be really sexually excited physically. I dont want to persue a woman for a relationship either. If a woman initiated sex with me I would go for it but wouldnt push her into it. I dont want to date women either. I pass up straight porn for gay porn anyday. Is it possible to want to date and have sex with men but still have that very small attraction to women. I thought to be bi you have to be attracted to both and want to date both equally.::confused:
     
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    You could be sexually fluid.

    calm down, you don't need to identify your sexuality so soon.

    Give yourself time to figure out
     
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    Nah, attraction doesn't have to be equal ergo no 50/50. It can be 75/25, 80/20, etc.
     
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    Fish is absolutely right. Don't worry about squeezing something as complicated as your sexual nature into a labelled box. React to stimuli as feels appropriate, and just enjoy what the world presents you. Worry about what makes you happy, not what will be convenient for labelling purposes. :slight_smile:
     
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    sounds like you know from experience girls are just a pretty face. Thanks man
     
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    Girls are not 'just a pretty face'.
     
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    Please disregard my sidebar. I was very stupid when I put that, and never changed it.
     
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    i have always been bi but i really can go form 70 -30 one way to 70 - 30 the other in any given period of time id also say that it really does depend on each person like every single person regardless of gender has their own % of attractiveness and i know some people wont think that its lady like of me to say this but fuck it - there are some people (and for me most of them are male) who you would just want to have sex with but not go into emotional stuff and then others (for me it would be much more likely to be a woman) who youd be more interested in pursuing a relationship with
     
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    Does it always change like that or can you be bi and stay the same ratio all your life

    ---------- Post added 21st Oct 2013 at 03:30 AM ----------

    in this case thats how i feel too . Its not stupid if its how you feel. Our society tends to be over sensitive in every fucking issue now days. i would agree with that statement based on my attraction to women only being 10% . Thats why i liked it.