Am i gay? I've always thought i was gay, I only get sexually aroused by men and only am emotionally attracted to very few men. Even though I'm only turned on by men I still look at girls bums, I also try to get with girls when i'm drunk? I don't know why though, so am i gay or bi?
When you walk into a room do you instinctively look at men or women. Are there men that you crush on can you think in the past years if there are certain men that you remember crushing on what about women? Do you get aroused by straight or gay porn? My advice as I've seen suggested here is to simply accept that you are gay for a month or two if you get gay feelings just accept them, if you check out a guy just accept it etc. I'd say you are gay btw you've said that you are sexually a roused by men and can also occasionally get emotionally attached.
None of us can tell you what you are. Sticking around on EC, doing some moderate-but-not-overly-intensive introspection, and reading things and seeing what resonates and what does not, and posting around some more, should all be helpful in helping you find clarity in yourself. And by the way, welcome to EC! =]
