I am a gay man who likes watching lesbian porn.

Interesting! I am not attracted to lesbian porn at all. If it's hetro porn i am watching the guy......i must be gay! Go with what you enjoy.

 

I have an odd answer based on a study done about...oh 2 years ago.

They surveyed what arouses men and women. Stupid study but people obviously wanted to know because cancer is too boring to study.

Men...most men, were clearly ONLY aroused by the gender they desired. Homosexual men by gay/straight porn, heterosexual men by straight/lesbian porn. The opposite didnt arouse them, even a little, via brain scans.

Women on the other hand, whether they were heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual...EVERYTHING aroused them. Straight, gay, lesbian, trans...it didn't matter. Their brains lit up like a Christmas tree in times square.

There are some lesbians, who don't get aroused at everything.....although most women do. Their brains could be wired similar to males...as the other study showed, allowing only selective arousal based on orientation.

That being said....there have been studies showing that some gay men have the hemispheres of the wiring in their brain similar to women. Perhaps...just perhaps your wiring allows you to be aroused by anything the way 90% of women are.

Your orientation and what sexually arouses you are not the same, just as it is with women. You may not act on it...but it does arouse you and allow pleasure.
Just a thought....

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Link to the two studies

Bisexual arousal pattern among women.
Study Suggests Difference Between Female And Male Sexuality

Hemispheres wired like opposite sex
Study Says Brains of Gay Men and Women Are Similar: Scientific American

 

I consider myslf straight, and I watchd lesbian porn mostly , and came like several times with girls during foreplay. I had 2 gay fantasies and the thing is that out of my 10 attempts to watch gay porn one time I got turned on by the foreplay mostly. I am also turned on a lot by sex stories kind of like women lol.
My conclusions are the following.
Sometimes sex is just sexy and its a turn on.
Male sexual fluidity and bisexuality is indeed a legitimate thing, not always but it does in fact exist.

At the and of the day, some people might just need to experience both in order to know what thy like more.

 

Cool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Welcome to the club! haha you know, I wouldn't fret too much about it. I don't think that viewing porn has as much to do with your orientation as you think it would. I think the most important thing is what you feel in the real world. Do you feel attracted to the person in front of you or not? That's all.

My assumption is that people can be interested in things that they wouldn't do in real life...like a curiousity, also if you associate that with sex then of course you might be attracted to just associating it to sex not neccessarily the ladies. Furthermore, it is possible that living in a heterosexist society and having more or less been pushed to be view women in that light has led to this association mechanism. Hope that helped!

 

I'm a lesbian who enjoys watching gay porn but I know that it doesn't make me any less of a lesbian. I also like watching solos of strictly GAY men self pleasuring. I won't watch though if the guy is described as a straight guy because it turns me off. Although I like watching I'd never want that dick inside of me or near me though! I also love queer women porn, but straight porn grosses me the eff out!

 

Can I ask a question regarding "lesbian porn"?

Does that mean porn featuring lesbians, or porn made by lesbians?

To me there's a huge difference. At least in my head.

Also, I think that some people can get turned on or off by the perceived sexuality of a situation, almost regardless of orientation. So maybe you just like how they move and what they do. You find it exciting. Does it really require a specific label?

For example straight porn. I am straight. But I stopped watching porn as a great deal of it is more about beating the seven shades out of women than actually doing the deed. I find this to be a massive turn off, but that doesn't say much about my orientation, right?

 

Just my personal opinion, but mate...I say forget the label and just go with it

Go with who you are. If you meet someone and you really hit it off with them...well, at that point you might have a better idea!

I will say that most relationships really don't do well when drugs are involved. I'm sorry you had to go deal with that.

 

Hey Andrew,

Nice to meet you! My name is Matt and I am extremely similar to you.

I am sexually attracted to women, watch lesbian porn or female solo, have only dated women but never really felt I was in love.

I'm 28 and everyday a voice inside my head tells me i'm gay. I believe I have had crushes on men, but more in the romantic side of things.

I have never had a gay experience but always feel I am gay, even though sexually all signs point to no.

I am very very depressed in my current state right now, basically a zombie.

Currently I am dating an amazing women, I love her, but I don't believe I am "in" love with her. You really nailed it by saying it just feels like a really good relationship.

I have a vicious cycle of:
- dating women
- becoming depressed
- breaking up, accepting i'm gay
- feeling awesome and incredibly confident
- then sleeping with another women due to sexually urges (mainly when i'm drunk)
- feeling all loved up and think they could be the one
- dating them, then falling depressed again :/
- breaking up, accepting i'm gay.....

My question to you is did it feel right, and did you loose any depression you had when you started dating men?????? How did you start dating men??

Sorry for the long post,
Cheers

 

Sometimes people get turned on by things that seem risky or wrong. Some straight men watch gay porn but this doesn't necessarily make them gay, although you'd think it would.