Hey so im a teenage girl and i wanted to know what my sexual orientation is, because i really do not know. Okay so i am really attracted to males, like they are the ones that i like, fangirl about, and generally want to be with.But for someone reason i can never actually be in a relationship with them and be happy. Sometimes i catch myself staring at girls butts and boobs and also i really enjoy the thought of having sex with a girl one day, and at first I only liked to think of them for sex but now i wonder what it would be like to be in a relationship with them. Like sometimes these are girls i know and sometimes they are celebs, like Sofia Vergara and Jennifer Love Hewitt. So i've noticed that the more curvier a female is the more sexually attracted i am to her, so i dont know if i actually like females or just their bodies. Yeah another thing that happens to me is that alot of people say the boys i am attracted to are feminine and 'pretty boyish', like i was really attracted to Justin Bieber when he was 15 and everyone called him girly but as he aged and got more masculine i wasnt, so i was wondering what you guys think. Thanks!
it sounds like your bisexual...maybe you just havent met a guy that you can suitably be in a relationship with yet
Kinda sounds veeeerry like me. Growing up I fangirled so much over video game characters and while I did actually have crushes on real life guys and fancied the unavailable types, I was never happy in a relationship with either, I always ended it, because I think the fantasy for me ended when I got in a real relationship with them. But I always genuinely believed I liked guys. I still think I like certain ones but lately I think I have been discovering I have been in denial and I like women. I still like men, but I am not sure if I genuinely do. It's hard to explain but I definitely like the attention I get from men and when I get to know them I can fall for them, and there is certain guys in my life I consider just gorgeous but I still don't know what these attractions mean, if they are real. I like the intimacy and romance with men. With women, I feel more drawn and I do get a bit obsessively jealous of the hotter girls or the prettier ones. I always thought it was only me comparing myself to them but I think it is actually something more... If it helps I still haven't figured things out and I'm 21 since last Tuesday ^^
