I fall in love so easily, for example I see a cute boy and soon "i love him" and I think of him. It's getting annoying. I have 3 categories: crushes (people I truly love) likes (people I see and like) and regular people. Please help
It'd help to work on defining what love actually is. I don't think you can truly love someone you have not meaningfully interacted with. To like someone based on their appearance and general pleasant demeanour would not be love in my eyes. Sure, you can be in love with the idea of that person, but that idea can change if you get to know them better. I'd call liking/'loving' someone that you don't truly know as infatuation, or as a crush. There's nothing wrong with having crushes on people. Recognize, though, that love is more rare and meaningful and precious than liking someone you do not know that well. There's not much more that'd help besides keeping that in mind... besides perhaps working on exploring why you become attached to these people in your mind, and trying to improve yourself and your love for yourself in the hopes of handling any issues that you may have with yourself (We all have issues with ourselves).
There's a huge difference. I dont think its genuine love you feel. In fact, i dont, i think its LUST. Love comes from deep within and no matter how many flaws the person has you still want to be with them because its love.Lust is the thought of someone, or maybe just seeing them and feeling feelings develop for them whether you have had any interaction at all.
I have been in the same boat. I did find a good thread on crushes. http://emptyclosets.com/forum/family-friends-relationships/7676-dealing-crushes.html I hope this can help. It has helped me.
