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When did you know?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Jaffacake, Nov 1, 2013.

  1. Jaffacake

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    I guess I'm just wondering if there was any real "turning point" where you realised what your sexuality is or if it was a gradual thing or... basically I'm asking for your story... Give me all of your stories!! :badgrin:

    I'm just really confused and scared at the moment and think I just need to know that I'm not the only one!
     
  2. BookDragon

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    Well I knew around the time when I started fantasising about guys more than girls...

    ...then I got confused again when I realised I had gender issues and now I'm not sure! :grin:
     
  3. Summer Rose

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    On a cruise ship four months ago, I randomly wondered what it'd be like to be a woman. I can't really say where the though came from, but whatever force brought it to me has made sure it never leaves. Now I'm left questioning my gender, though I definitely feel female, both inside and a little outside as well.
     
  4. Sitri

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    Ok, that's weird. Right before I got on a cruise ship four months ago I had a dream about a guy, and I realized I liked it. The entire cruise I was questioning my sexuality. I guess I still am.
     
  5. lovely lesbian

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    Only a few months ago actually but I've always thought women were sexy and always had dreams about women and stuff. X
     
  6. MyChemRomance

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    For me, I realised around 4th or 5th year that something was different. I dismissed it, but now, thinking over it, there was no exact time that I can point out and say 'Yep, that was the day I knew I was gay' (yes, I rhyme because I'm cool like that).
     
  7. the lone wolf

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    Started wondering about a year ago, why? Because someone thought I was coming on to him, and I was like "nah that's crazy" but that's when it started.
    I know that I'm gay for sure for about 5-6 months now.
    Maybe the guy was right after all :grin: