So a while back I've made a post about questioning where I stood. Here's an update on my situation: Gay porn excites me, but only the anal sex part. Bottoming to be even more precise. Watching a man masturbate, foreplay or just stripping does nothing for me. I can completely take the men out of the equasion and focus on he sexual act themselves. So when it comes to homoerotic fantasies, there's not a particular face that I relate to. It's just the fantasy of being penetrated that turns me on. When it comes to women however, I can perfectly visualise someone and have a yearning to be with her, which with guys is not (or at least has not been) the case. I don't actively picture everyone naked in the street, because with most people, don't want to know how they look naked. When it comes to my homoerotic fantasies, anything goes, since attractiveness isn't really part of the equasion. It's kind of funny. I suppose my ideal situation for the moment would be a role reversal. An attractive woman in a dominant position. Hah. It would probably be easier to find a man to have sex with than a woman that would be in to pegging. Anyway, I've recently bought a prostate massager to see if anal stimulation is everything my mind makes it out to be. To be honest, once the novelty of having something in my rectum wore off, it wasn't really all that exciting. I might just be doing it wrong though. It's been a while since I was sexually active with anyone. I've got a thing going with a girl atm. I might be able to update again after a few dates and see where my questioning takes me. Cheers and thanks for all the posts here, even for those that didn't apply directly to me. You guys have been a great help. ---------- Post added 4th Nov 2013 at 02:32 AM ---------- I can't edit the post anymore, but I did want to add some nuance to a paragraph. In stead of picturing people naked in the street, I wanted to the gym as an example where fit women can attract my gaze because of their physical appearance. The only time that I pay attention to the men there is if they're benching alot of weight or they're doing something stupid. None of those 2 instances however makes me picture the men naked.
Sounds like you just want a dominant lady, which is nothing unordinary really. It's not the role you play in sex that determines your sexuality (may differ based on where you are from), but who you are attracted to. Since you still love women, it's obvious that you're straight; you also seem to notice men's attractiveness, but that doesn't make you any less straight. Basically, you just like something different than the norm when it comes to sex, nothing to worry about
Yeah, you seem like a straight guy that just happens to be into some anal stimulation, which is perfectly fine and doesn't make someone gay since it does feel good no matter sexual orientation. Most straight guys don't give it a try since it's something that society has deemed as "gay" behavior. You don't necessarily need to find a female partner that is into "pegging" from the get-go. You can start off by just incorporating toys into your sex life with her and using them on each other and go from there and work up to a strap-on if that's what you desire.
