Don't know if this is the correct way to do this... Just signed up for this site like 5 minutes ago... Anyway I just want some guidance, since a bit over a year I have felt not attracted to girls and more attracted to guys (by the way, I'm a young teenager) but I don't know if it's just a phase or if I really am gay, I have always felt awkward around men since I was really young but in the last year it have started to watch gay porn and all that stuff but I'm just really confused right now... Help
Just take a step back, and relax. As much as you probably feel pressured, you don't need a label right now at this very instant. What you need to focus on is getting past your fears about being gay and just let yourself feel attraction and pay attention. Just let yourself feel whatever you want sexually for awhile. Your natural sexuality will begin showing up. But before you can do that, you have to accept either possibility. Whether you end up gay or not, you must accept yourself whether it is true or not.
This is good advice. One thing I'd like to add is just be careful with your porn haha. Just know that porn and real sex are two very very different things. Also, always remember to clear your browser history and don't download anything that ends in ".exe" Just don't be afraid or ashamed to feel the way you feel and life should be smooth sailing from here on out ---------- Post added 4th Nov 2013 at 07:00 PM ---------- On second thought, I'm going to be a responsible adult and agree with this. At least until you're 14... I mean 18.
