Hi everyone. I'm a straight male and have been mainly attracted to women, although I have been with a few transsexuals (who have fascinated me for a long time) and I found that I like them too. Now I have occasionally fantasized about feminine guys, but after orgasm I lose all interest in the idea; however lately it's been nagging me a bit more and I was thinking of finally doing it - I should add the fantasies I have about guys are purely sexual, I have no romantic feelings toward them at all. I was just wondering if having sex with someone out of your normal sexual orientation could change your sexuality. E.g. if I start having sex with guys, could I start to develop a deeper interest or romantic feelings in them?
It is possible to develop a romantic orientation towards a sex when you get to be with them; it's also possible to simple be sexually attracted to them, but not romantically. Don't stress it too much; just go and try it out.
