I was wondering recently, I can very much imagine me being in a loving relationship (with either gender) and Its something I aspire to have in the near future but... the thought of sex kind of grosses me out, I don't think I'd enjoy it and I don't know where that puts me in terms of "sexual" orientation. Although I do find myself attracted to attractive people, just the of sex in any way makes me feel odd. What further confuses me is that I can watch porn and become aroused or be touched by someone in sexual places and become aroused but vaginal or anal sex does not sit well with me, and I don't know If I could have a successful relationship without it, can anyone help me at least identify where I stand with my sexuality? Also I like the idea of foreplay and intimacy up until oral sex, but after that I dont think I could do it.
Well, you could be on the asexual spectrum. Which can still mean you have romantic attractions in all other categories, just not very interested in actually having sex. There's also demisexual, which I take to mean that one isn't interested in sex until without a strong emotional bond being present first.
You could very well be Hetero-, Homo-, or Bi-romantic asexual. And that's absolutely nothing to be ashamed of! If a person is in love with you, they would have to be in love with that part of you too. And like poison53sumac said, you could also very well be demisexual. Just some things to think about! Good luck!
I think I might be demisexual, that sounds weird lol, Let me research this stuff and try and categorise myself if I can, thanks for the help. Beginning to love this website
