Well I am 21 years old.. I have always liked women, some girls have mde me jizz in my pants etc... and my porn use/fantasies is like 99% lesbian/straight. Gay porn and gay fantasies usually cant get me off. It took me like 15 attempts to get hard to gay porn, but when it did, I got relly hard I ejaculated instantly (same thing with the fantasies)... On the other hand I get off to lesbian porn daily, and I ejaculate but it takes like 15-30 minutes...if I abstain for 2-3 days it gets me off in less than 5 minutes. Any thoughts on this ? I know that the dynamics of bisexuality are complex, and I should take it easy, but this 1% of the time where my erections felt hard, bothers me...
That really depends on SO many things...your mood, your technique, sensitivity, how long since last time...the factors go on and on! If you're not enjoying gay porn, why force yourself to watch it?
When I think about it I just say I can't be stuffed. I ain't one nor the other, though primarily hetero from birth. Chances are this won't last, but I live life by the day. As for masturbation, I usually get turned on by gay fursuiter and furry porn. Yes that is yiff. I'm more for erotic stories and pictures than videos. But everyone is different.
It reaaaaaaally depends on so many factors, as well as the individual in question. If you're forcing yourself to watch gay porn and rarely, if ever, enjoy it, I don't see why that should continue. You shouldn't need to force yourself to do anything, or need to prove anything to yourself. Live your life, and things will fall into place as they may, eventually.
The thing is I dont know what I am forcing... maybe I am forcing arousal out of lesbian porn. I have checked a lot of times, and I do get erect to it without even touching myself sometimes... but anyway whatever I am giving up porn and masturbation to go with the flow... This is exhausting.
Well the only reason to WATCH porn is go give you something to get you erect without having to think to hard. So if gay porn isn't working, your forcing it, if lesbian porn IS working, you aren't forcing it. You don't have to be a straight male or a lesbian to enjoy lesbian porn, and you don't HAVE to enjoy gay porn if you're a gay male.
