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I'm really confused

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by questionable, Nov 18, 2013.

  1. questionable

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    I label myself bisexual but my classmates tells me that I'm more of a gay guy than a bisexual guy.

    I think I'm bi. Because I am romantically attracted to girls but no sexual attraction towards them. I have extreme sexual feelings towards men and I'm not really sure in regards to my romantic attraction towards men. Cause I haven't been in a relationship with a guy. But, I've been in a relationship with women I had 3 girlfriends already. Wherein one of those 3 knows that I'm bi and she was even supportive.

    What confuses me right now is...
    1st: There's this guy in the elementary school whom I really like we're not really close but I really like him in a sexual way. I get butterflies in my stomach when I see him and I blush and squeel a lot when I'm alone just looking at him he doesn't know I'm bi.

    2nd: There's also this little girl in the elementary school whom I really find cute and attractive. Not really close to her too but I know her big sister and her big sister is one of my friends.

    3rd: I have no idea if I'm developing some feelings towards this freshman girl in highschool. We talk a lot in facebook and we get to see each other in person at school. But we didn't had long conversation in person yet. Honestly, we only greet each other Hi, Hello at school not having any conversation about anything.

    People say bisexuality doesn't exist and they think I'm just greedy and I want both sides that's why I'm saying that I'm bisexual.

    I really don't know if I'm bisexual or gay
    I have lots of thoughts in my mind that I can't explain in words... :/
    Things are just too complicated right now...

    Any reply would be greatly appreciated.
     
  2. questionable

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    Please help me :frowning2:
     
  3. Shiki

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    These kids in elementary school, how old are they??
     
  4. Caillin

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    How old are the kids in elementary school?
     
  5. ss190

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    How old are these kids that you're on about?
     
  6. questionable

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    The girl is on 5th grade she's probably 11 years old
    And the 2 guys are around 12 years old.

    Am I a pedo here? T__T
     
  7. Caillin

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    Yeah it kinda is to like someone like that its fine like when they are older but they are a bit young for dating and stuff and dont know to much wait till the get older but by the time they are old enough you would probably be to old so try and find someone close to your age.
     
  8. Pussy cat

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    I think you're gay....If you have butterflies when you see a boy..Yeah..