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I'm straight but there's this guy...?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by orangeyskies, Nov 18, 2013.

  1. orangeyskies

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    So I'm a trans*guy and consider myself 100% straight. I like girls.

    I don't feel any desire to have sex with a man. But there's this guy- and I just think he's one of the most gorgeous, funniest people I've ever met and I can't help thinking that if he kissed me or something I wouldn't stop it. He's not most people's idea of beautiful, but to me he's just... ugh :bang:

    He's definitely the exception, not the rule.

    Again, no lust or anything here. I just have no idea what I'm feeling because I've never felt this way about a guy.

    Does this mean anything? Should I give it any attention or just roll with it?

    :help:
     
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  2. Tayb24

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    Just like who you like, if you follow your heart, you'll have no regrets.
     
  3. biggayguy

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    Many people are not all the way zero or six on the Kinsey Scale. You might like just this one guy. It wouldn't keep you from being straight. You're just open-minded.
     
  4. laloski

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    Yeah just keep an open minded, I mean I consider my self straight but I wouldn't rule out ever doing something with a guy. Sexuality is fluid, you can think you're only attracted to to the opposite sex and then BAM, you find someone of the same sex that you really like for some reason.

    If you don't want to pursue anything with the guy, then don't worry about! Unless you think you'll regret it in the future.
     
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    Felt the same way too before. But I didn't pay attention to it though.