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How much weight does that "icky feeling" have when thinking about sexual orientation?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Starry Eyes, Nov 20, 2013.

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  1. Starry Eyes

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    I know that many people post stories about their first time experimenting with the same sex, and that they report a feeling of disgust, and regret afterwards. Some people view these feelings as a sign that they don't like the same sex, but is this accurate? Should experimentation not be a one time thing so that you can make sure those feelings were based around a rejection of being with the same sex?
     
    #1 Starry Eyes, Nov 20, 2013
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    Re: How much weight does that "icky feeling" have when thinking about sexual orientat

    Most people who are genuinely straight and comfortable with being straight aren't so much disgusted at the idea of being with the same sex as "Meh. it doesn't do anything for me."

    People who are gay and not yet accepting of themselves are generally really excited and aroused in the moment, and the feeling of disgust and revulsion happens after orgasm.

    If you
     
    #2 Chip, Nov 20, 2013
  3. Starry Eyes

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    Re: How much weight does that "icky feeling" have when thinking about sexual orientat

    Uh...did you get taken out by a sniper?

    But yeah, I can agree with what you are saying. But is the person saying "meh" to sex with the same gender someone who has experimented, or someone who is not interested in experimenting?
     
    #3 Starry Eyes, Nov 20, 2013
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