I'm a 17-year-old girl, I'm soon 18. Since primary-school I can't help looking at girls, I think they are cute, I want to know them and always spend time with them. I want their attention. But I have always suppressed those feelings, believing it was wrong to think this way. I don't know if I've ever fallen in love with a guy. There are some cute guys but I would never want to be together with them or share my life with them. It just doesn't work for me. I don't know if it's all about a fear of guys, but I don't want a boyfriend. I don't want a guy to touch me and kiss me. To me it feels unnatural. Why am I feeling this way?
Have you experienced a sexual attraction as well as romantic attraction? Perhaps you're a lesbian. There's nothing at all wrong with being gay, or bisexual, or anything else.
Seems to me that you need to come to terms with who you are. There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian. There are many people on this site who are here for you! (&&&)
I would say that it sounds like you are a lesbian, but of course I think you would need to have a relationship, or have sex with another woman to say 100% how you feel about it.
It feels good I'm not alone. ---------- Post added 27th Nov 2013 at 09:43 PM ---------- OK. Thank you for your advice