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Why am I feeling this way?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by IceKitten, Nov 26, 2013.

  1. IceKitten

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    I'm a 17-year-old girl, I'm soon 18. Since primary-school I can't help looking at girls, I think they are cute, I want to know them and always spend time with them. I want their attention. But I have always suppressed those feelings, believing it was wrong to think this way. I don't know if I've ever fallen in love with a guy. There are some cute guys but I would never want to be together with them or share my life with them. It just doesn't work for me.

    I don't know if it's all about a fear of guys, but I don't want a boyfriend. I don't want a guy to touch me and kiss me. To me it feels unnatural.

    Why am I feeling this way? :confused:
     
  2. sysreq

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    Have you experienced a sexual attraction as well as romantic attraction?

    Perhaps you're a lesbian. There's nothing at all wrong with being gay, or bisexual, or anything else.
     
  3. IceKitten

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    Yeah, I have.
     
  4. CupcakeKisses

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    Seems to me that you need to come to terms with who you are. There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian. There are many people on this site who are here for you! (&&&)
     
  5. Starry Eyes

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    I would say that it sounds like you are a lesbian, but of course I think you would need to have a relationship, or have sex with another woman to say 100% how you feel about it.
     
  6. IceKitten

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    It feels good I'm not alone. :slight_smile:

    ---------- Post added 27th Nov 2013 at 09:43 PM ----------

    OK. Thank you for your advice :slight_smile:
     
  7. lovely lesbian

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    It does sound like your a lesbian nothing wrong with it xxx
     
  8. IceKitten

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    ok. :slight_smile: