I've thought I was bi for a few months, but for the past little while, I've noticed, like, no attraction to females at all. But I have lots of attraction to guys. So at first, I blew it off thinking I just leaned more towards guys...But lately, it just seems like I'm straight out gay...Any help on how to figure it out?
It's not an easy determination. I might ask questions such as: - what's in your dreams, and not just your conscious fantasies? - are you able to readily and willingly perform on a physical level with one sex or both? - could you be content with the affection of and sexual relations with just one gender? - what are your reasons for or ideas of what you like and don't like about the genders?
I have heard of bisexuals who "oscillate" between prefering men and prefering women. Maybe you're on a little bit of a swing? That's just and idea. If you watch porn, knowing which one you tend to favor more is a good hint.
