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Trying to understand my orientation

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by anonym, Dec 11, 2013.

  1. anonym

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    I know that I am attracted to women physically and emotionally. I also know that I would easily choose a relationship with a woman over a relationship with a man.

    But I'm confused about the way I feel about men. I don't desire a man's body. I can appreciate that it is attractive but that is all. I do feel some kind of attraction to guys though and I'm not sure what it is. It could be admiration but even though I'm ftm I don't find that I'm thinking I want to look like them. I don't know what to make of it.:confused:
     
  2. sweetiepi

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    Just find someone you like, weather its a boy or girl! Once you learn to like one person and focus less on their gender you will realize how unimportant is
     
  3. BookDragon

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    "I do feel some kind of attraction to guys though and I'm not sure what it is."

    Well, does it matter? But since you ask, here is my take:

    If I go out and I see a girl I am not attracted to AT ALL, I can still look at her and find some appeal. Doesn't matter what they look like. I know I don't want to look like them, but they are ultimately in possession of at least 2 things I really want. It's more like appreciation of the goal. One day I'll be there. That make any sense?