Finally found the right sub forum!! So, I'm sexually attracted to females. Even if they have a penis, or were originally born a man. Being as a penis is typically associated with a man, does me wanting a beautiful TS to penetrate til she cums in me or on me, while i jerk off to completion, is that "gay"? What if I want to suck her cock? Am I still straight because I think of her as a women, and can look past her having a penis. Even though her hard penis really gets me hot and bothered???? One person answered me in my opening info thing, and said I'm not gay. But it sounds like I'm walking a tightrope of being Bi and being straight. I don't care if I'm bi, I just don't like saying to myself "hmmm i'm not sure what I am" !!? Thanks you
What do you think is an appropriate response to this. "How is getting fucked in the ass by a hard cock, not gay?" or "How is letting a penis cum in your ass not gay?" This hasn't happened. Just a question I sort of ask myself, and think the "normal" response would be
Um..... I've thought of it before the whole being demi or rather attatched to someone enough to feel sexual attraction
And thus the search continues. I'm definitely feel I'm not fully straight. So, I don't feel that quite applies to me.
If it'll ease your mind you could take the flexuality test. Just plug it into google, should be a top result. Obviously tests aren't the final word on what your orientation is but that one's fairly comprehensive. Based in what you said I'd guess you're heteroflexible (straight-curious) because you're not bi in that you don't feel any definitively same sex attraction but your attractions aren't entirely straight. That, or you just have a very particular fetish for dicks/anal. Either way, I wouldn't say you're bi.
I think you just have an odd fetish. No straight guys I have been with have ever wanted to see the male part of me. I have had to adapt the ways I lay in bed or things I wear in private to hide that part. But my last man who is straight would not like me to crossdress. He preferred me to dress like a man. Go figure! and he is completely straight! Each man is different in what he will accept from us transwomen and each see something different when they look at me. So I feel it is normal for a man to accept us as female because we are female..... if you cross over to gay men or bi men then the line would be crossed. You are just accepting her body better than any have accepted mine. Enjoy yourself! June
OOOOH! I love it. Heteroflexible. That's that! And I'll try out the test, and the kinsey scale is very intriguing as well. Wow, not even two days here and i'm learning quite a bit. ---------- Post added 13th Dec 2013 at 08:05 PM ---------- Interesting, very interesting. How do you even meet these people? Do you come out and tell them the truth before seeing them? ---------- Post added 13th Dec 2013 at 08:11 PM ---------- Just took the flexuality test, and it made things much clearer! Thanks Sam, you really are the man! If anyone's interested I got 6 - straight 9 - heteroflexible 3 - ambisexual So, I'm comfortable with saying I'm a heteroflexible sexual deviant !!