I've only had romantic crushes on women but I've fantasized about sex with a man. If I ever watch porn, it's always gay male porn. If I see a random attractive guy in real life, I'm not attracted to them enough to consider myself bisexual. I don't have any desire to kiss, cuddle, or date a man. BUT I do fantasize about sexual activity with them? I'm not sure if you can be homoromantic homosexual but have a desire to experiment sexually with men. Or if that would be considered homoromantic bisexual. I'm confused. What do you think?
What exactly would you imagine a 'homoromantic bisexual' is if not someone who is primarily gay but like the idea of sexing guys?
I'm not sure. I guess I thought if someone is bisexual, they will be attracted to guys in real life and not just the sex aspect. I don't find myself attracted to men other than in the sex sense. I'm more into sex with women though. I'm only occasionally interested in sexual activity with men. I don't think about sex often for the most part and I'd rather have sex with a woman than a man. But idk I guess I'm confused about what the terms mean and where I stand on the scale of sexuality.
I've been wondering about this myself I'm bisexual as well but i prefer being with a woman sexually and emotionally . I'm ok with having sex with guys but they don't attract me much sexually I would just do it out of experimenting or curiosity
I usually just tell people that I prefer women and leave it at that. But I understand how important it is for some people who prefer to label themselves. I am mostly attracted to women, but I've like some guys. For so long, I tried to control/denied my feelings that it left me even more confused. I think if you find yourself attracted to women and men (romantically/sexually) then yes, that would make you bisexual. You don't have to be equally attracted to either sex. According to my brother, I am bisexual, but I do not feel bisexual nor 100% gay. He thinks he knows me so well, but he doesn't understand how difficult it was for me to accept my sexuality. I mean, I've dated men and women since I was in my late teens, and in doing so, I discovered that I enjoy the company of a women more Also, I think a lot of bisexuals have a preference for women and or men, but there are a lot who do not. If anything just go with the flow and follow your heart and mind.
