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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by UG Scorpio, Dec 14, 2013.

  1. UG Scorpio

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    hi all I have just done a test and it has come out as I am gay :confused:. I am really confused now someone help me out please???? :help:
    Also I did the Kinsey scale test and it came out as 3 I so confused now.
     
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    If it was an online test dont trust it, theyre usually bull
     
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    A test? what kind of test?
    Yes, online test are quite unreliable. I'd say if you're confused, search yourself, or try to get close to guys you find attractive.
    EDIT: Remember, you are only 16, so you have a long time to figure it out, no need to make up your mind now.
     
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    I know I am 16 but I have had a sexual relationship with a guy and loved it
     
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    Well then, what are you afraid of? If you know you loved it.
    The moment I was able to fulfill my sexual fantasies with a guy I knew that living a gay life was the right thing to do and I embraced it fully and unafraid. What's holding you back?
     
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    the thing that is holding me back is family and friends
     
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    Well, yes. That held me back for many years as well.
    But you made it sound as if you were confused about whether you were gay or not, it sounds to me like you are quite sure you are gay, isn't that the case?
    You don't have to come out to your family and friends until you feel comfortable enough to do so, there is no rush.
     
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    thanks for the help bud
     
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    Always here to help ^_^
    From my personal experience, I came out by force when I was 19 because my mom discovered on the computer the site gay.com and she confronted me about it, so I had no choice, but I later told her that I was confused and a few years later got together with a woman. My mom at the time told me that Jesus had finally answered her prayers (I died a little inside when she told me that), but I was still in denial. We were together for three years and I even proposed to her. A year before the wedding, I couldn't lie to myself and to her anymore. We broke up and I officially came out to everyone. I haven't been happier since :slight_smile:
    Her and I are still great friends.
     
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