I'm in my teens right now, and I don't think this is all a phase because I was a tomboy and was quite different from others since I was very small. But I know that someone can be a tomboy without being a lesbian. Can this all be a phase?? *I'm pretty sure that I'm way more interested in girls than boys right now...
"I'm pretty sure that I'm way more interested in girls than boys right now..." You see that bit I put in bold? That's the important part of that sentence. RIGHT NOW. Does it matter if in 6 months time you decide you like guys again? RIGHT NOW, you like girls. If you found an amazing girl tomorrow who wanted to date you, would you really want to sit there and think "Yeah but it could be a phase!", no way! You want to take that chance! What's the WORST that can happen if you go for it? It turns out you find boys more appealing later. No big deal, you still had fun. What's the WORST that can happen if you say 'nah, it's probably a phase'? You wait for ever and nothing changes. What if it ISN'T. You had your chance and lost it. Maybe another girl comes up and wants to date you, but no, it could be a phase. How long do you wait before you decide? If it feels right to you to be interested in girls then go with it. Go with it without shame. Without fear. If your interests change later, you haven't lost anything, but in the mean time, you could gain so much!
I told myself it was a phase for decades. Please don't do that to yourself. Go with what you feel. I lost a chance with many guys because I thought it was a phase. Not only that I hurt a few women by not being real.
You know, everything can change... But, as far as i know, sexuality is something given, it can not be changed under external circumstances, that's what my biology teacher told me. So i thought i just have to figure it out. To try to be as honest as i can with myself. I've always been a tomboy, too, but i also "married" my second wife at the age of 14... Haha. The first one i married somewhere around 10. I'm 17 now and still used to think, that probably... Well, everything is possible... Maybe i'm confused and it's a phaaase... I was thinking that way lately, but now i don't. A phase lasting for more than 4 years?.. Well. What kind of phase is this? I guess i'm just lesbian and that's it. Try to test yourself mentally. Try to force yourself to like guys, to think they are attractive. Imagine yourself marrying a guy in the end and settling on it. Just to see if you can do this. That's what i did, like, a lot when i tried to figure out things. I tried hard and failed at everything, so now i'm pretty sure it's not just a phase. Good luck
Just don't go hoping it's a phase. The chance it might be is a small one, and if it is a phase then someday you might even miss being a little gay I think the word "phase" invalidates real feelings, whether your feelings for girls stay or go, they were still there once and they were real