I know i've posted here before, but i'm still confused :help: I recently realised I like the occasional boy as well as girls. It's not that often I like boys though. Since I realised this... I haven't really been turned on by anything. Or at least it takes a long time. Is this normal? Any answers appreciated (*hug*)
Think about this through the lens of how you like girls. You don't like every girl right? Like if an 80 year old woman wanted to go out with you then you would probably say no, right? Why? She has boobs and a vagina, right? But clearly we know that it is not enough to just be a girl. You want someone you find attractive. So amongst all women you might only find half of them attractive. This same principle could extend to boys, but just to a lesser degree. You might only like 10% of all men because only that 10% have the characteristics that you find attractive. So it is completely natural to find a man attractive every now and then.