Do your preferences for guys or girls change from time to time? Lately, I've changed from liking only guys, to both, then mainly girls in hours time and idk if that's normal .-.
Yeah, my interests tend to fluctuate. I can go for days, weeks even, being heavily into guys, and then bam, I start noticing girls way more (and vice-versa).
I tend to find I just want different things from guys and girls. So I'll be more likely to find a girl physically attractive, but I'd much rather have a guy! The only way it tends to change is that occasionally I just could not care less about girls, but otherwise it stays about the same.
For me, it fluctuates, sometimes hourly. But at any given time, I can be attracted to either gender. To put it more clearly, I fluctuate from Kinsey 2 to 5.
Yeah I think that's normal though, it happens to me too though not that often. Like I'd be into one gender and not the other for a few weeks, then I'd like both for a tiny amount of time, and then the other gender for a while.
I've spoken with many bisexuals on other sites, and this seems to be a pretty ubiquitous feature of bisexuality (though not completely universal). Changes from day to day, by the hour, and/or over the years.
I swing back and forth sometimes. When I was with my ex gf, I felt like i wanted to be with guys again. So after we broke up, i dated 2 guys before deciding i wanted another gf. Now being in a relationship with a girl, I sometimes feel like dating a guy- though I'm not going to break it off just for that!
Right. They're so different, both physically, in how they process stuff, and in their approaches. I will say that I get hit on slightly more by women now, and it used to be more by men before, by a slight margin. I'd rather be viewed as a good time rather than as a meal ticket. Oh well, like they say, there's a lot of truth in jest.
I'm not going to lie, the fluctuations are what confused me for a while. Like, a long, long while. Now, though, I'll admit I'm bi, I just get on kicks where sometimes I like guys more and sometimes I like girls more. It depends on the minute/hour/day/week/month. Even the company.
