Hi everyone, I'm new to these forums and decided this is probably the best place to get advice. I've been lurking for a few days on these forums and I've noticed how friendly and caring people are on here so I decided to join since my situation is unique I'll try to keep this short and I apologize in advance for any spelling mistakes as I am using my cell phone to type this! :tantrum: I'm 25 now and I've been questioning my sexuality ever since I was 12 or so but I didn't let it bother me. A few years later in highschool I was in love with this girl, she made me happy and I made her happy. We did everything together and we couldn't spend enough time together. I was super happy until that all changed when I just couldn't make myself have sex with her, I just wasn't interested. Thinking I was actually gay I started watching gay porn and I just loved it. I could instantly see that I was attracted to the male body. And so I told her that I was gay and she said she was shocked as I was always the straight macho type, I'm masculine acting and looking. Anyway, she supported me. At 18 or so I met this gay guy through a friend and we became friends. One night after drinking I fooled around with him, I didn't like it at all, I didn't want to see him after that so our friendship pretty much ended there. I've experimented with guys but I'm not into it. I find women beautiful, attractive and sexy but I'm just not sexually attracted to them. I'm more attracted to men, I find them cute and hot as hell.. but I have no desire have sex with them either. So here I am at 25 with no idea what I am. I'm totally confused and feeling lonely as life passes by. Could I be asexual after all?
There are a few stances on this and I'm sure replies will be mixed. But here are 3 views from me. 1. You may find the male body as something appealing or good looking, but your not attracted to it to the point where you want to have sex with a guy. And this could be why your confused. As for the girls, you said you never could get yourself to have sex with her. Maybe you should actually go and try having sex with a girl? Your choice, you said you cant but maybe there is something else we don't know why you cant. 2. You actually do like guys and you are in denial about that fact so you act grossed out as your reaction? Just another guess Or 3. You are either bisexual or asexual!
Thanks for the replies. Biromantic asexual? Never heard that before. Lol As to why I can't have sex with women is because I can't get aroused by them, it just doesn't want to work so I don't know. Believe me, I've tried
