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Just freaking out, yet again.

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by paranoidkid, Dec 30, 2013.

  1. paranoidkid

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    So yeah freaking out again. My mom was talking to me and yeah I thought about a guys back. Nothing crazy. But at the same time my penis moved. I don't know if it's coincidence or what. But I was not aroused. I did not have any arousal at all, swear on my life. Just my penis moved a small amount. Not so much a "twitch" but just moved maybe like sliding idk. But it was not attraction or arousal I did not get any feeling at all NOTHING. It just moved and not a lot at all. But now I'm freaking out like a mad man.
     
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    I don't want to be rude, but you created a threat with same topic like 2 hours ago.
     
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    Ik I did!! But I didn't know if something was wrong with me or not, in a health perspective. That's why I posted it there. But now that I'm done worrying about that I'm worrying about this part. If yall didn't notice, I worry a lot. It's not fun but it's my life :bang:
     
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    Well, once again twitching =/= arousal. You weren't getting aroused by this, it was just a twitch. In the scheme of things it's really not worth thinking twice about. More generally, it's clear from all your posts that you don't find any of these images from guys enjoyable in the least. You still like girls! You really sound like you're straight, nothing you've said has made me question that.

    Look, we've been telling you you're straight for numerous threads now... I think it's time to change tactics if you're still worried. It seems to me that EC isn't really working to calm you down. It's been mentioned on another thread, but maybe you need to isolate yourself from your sexuality. Completely disengage yourself from it, two weeks with no porn, no EC, no pictures, no nothing that triggers this. There is website-blocking software out there, or just let someone put it into the firewall for you. You just need to stop the obsessive cycle, that's the problem, not your sexuality.

    I saw in another thread you were thinking about talking to your gay uncle. Have you talked yet? If so, how did it go?

    Also another thought- you need to get some perspective. As well as talking to LGBT people, talk as well to some straight people you can trust. Ask them whether they've ever had same-sex thoughts, whether they've experienced what you're going through. Many of them probably have at some point or another, and that should help you see that what you're experiencing is well within the bounds of heterosexuality.
     
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    [U.OTE=same man;1818006]Well, once again twitching =/= arousal. You weren't getting aroused by this, it was just a twitch. In the scheme of things it's really not worth thinking twice about. More generally, it's clear from all your posts that you don't find any of these images from guys enjoyable in the least. You still like girls! You really sound like you're straight, nothing you've said has made me question that.

    Look, we've been telling you you're straight for numerous threads now... I think it's time to change tactics if you're still worried. It seems to me that EC isn't really working to calm you down. It's been mentioned on another thread, but maybe you need to isolate yourself from your sexuality. Completely disengage yourself from it, two weeks with no porn, no EC, no pictures, no nothing that triggers this. There is website-blocking software out there, or just let someone put it into the firewall for you. You just need to stop the obsessive cycle, that's the problem, not your sexuality.

    I saw in another thread you were thinking about talking to your gay uncle. Have you talked yet? If so, how did it go?

    Also another thought- you need to get some perspective. As well as talking to LGBT people, talk as well to some straight people you can trust. Ask them whether they've ever had same-sex thoughts, whether they've experienced what you're going through. Many of them probably have at some point or another, and that should help you see that what you're experiencing is well within the bounds of heterosexuality.[/QUOTE]

    To he honest. This is by far the best post and most sought out post anyone had ever posted to me. Ik I'm nice right lmao. But no seriously. Not only did u reply about my sexuality but you also replied about my obsession problem.and how to fight it. Honestly going 2 weeks without porn is so damn hard too do. After like 5 days I'm raging like craZy. thanks a ton